I want to leave gamer boyfriend – but I can’t give up the incredible sex

I want to leave gamer boyfriend - but I can't give up the incredible sex

DEAR DEIDRE: IS great sex a valid reason not to dump my gamer boyfriend? We’re both 25. We’ve been together for five years and our sex life is amazing. You’d think we’d be bored with each other by now, but he only has to touch me and I want him. Outside the bedroom, however, I … Read more

My toy boy lover is abusive and blames me for his porn habit

My toy boy lover is abusive and blames me for his porn habit

DEAR DEIDRE: MY toy boy lover is abusive and even blames me for his porn habit. I know I’m not the problem but sometimes I feel like I’m going mad. It’s making me feel really depressed.  I’m 49 and he’s 38. We’ve been together for three years. He has a lovely side. He can be … Read more

When my female friend kissed me, you helped me let her down kindly

When my female friend kissed me, you helped me let her down kindly

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my female friend kissed me, after making it clear she wanted more from me than friendship, I didn’t know how to handle it. I wasn’t interested in her romantically, but she didn’t seem to get the message. I’m a 27-year-old man, and she’s 24. We were good mates after… When my female … Read more

I left my wife as she drinks too much but I still love her

I left my wife as she drinks too much but I still love her

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER putting up with my wife’s excessive boozing for years, I told her I was leaving, hoping it might make her change. But she kept on drinking. I am 53 and my wife is 48. We have been married for 18 years. I love her but it feels as though I’m being punished … Read more

I got home with the Christmas shopping just as my husband walked out the door

I got home with the Christmas shopping just as my husband walked out the door

DEAR DEIDRE: THE Christmas lights are up and the festive decorations out, but this time of year makes me feel so blue after my husband dropped a bombshell three days before Christmas last year. I’d just arrived home with all the food shopping to find him waiting in the kitchen with his bags packed.  To … Read more